Why do so many people ~
in our Western society ~
speak of the word control ~
as a seemingly good thing!?
~ Trying to learn to ski?
"Be in control of your speed down the mountain!"
~ Teary-eyed during a tough day at work?
"Keep your emotions under control!"
~ Your child throws a fit in public?
"Learn to control your kid!"~ Your eating habits are out of control?
"Go on a food~depriving/exercise~exhausting regiment!"
"Throw him/her away and get a new one!"
~ You are an adult, with people who rely upon you?
"You are expected to have full control of your life!"
Are we conscious of what this language 'says' ~ about who we are?
Perhaps if we were not trying ~
to control our environment ~
there would be less ~
physical~emotional~intellectual~spiritual
unhappiness~stress~trauma~disaster
in our environment ~
all around ~
and within ~
us.
Maybe if we were more conscious of our surroundings ~
We would be more conscious of our own Selves ~
And less wanting to control every~thing around us!
When struggling with some~thing ~
I find it more effective and rewarding ~
to visualize being ~ in harmony ~
with the said some~thing
to think of myself ~ in balance ~
with the said some~thing
thus achieving success ~
~ vitality ~
via the new bond~partnership ~
with the said some~thing!
~ Harmony~Balance~Vitality ~
Walking along the path of life
With the intent of self growth
And that of all 'things' encountered
Does this not require us to be conscious?
Is this not more energizing ~
More fulfilling ~
And more apt for success ~
Than control?
Consciousness versus Control
What do you choose?
Words are powerful ~
They influence ~
how we perceive the world
what we do ~ how we do
Listen ~ for the word control in your environment today
Be ~ conscious ~ of how the word is introduced into your space
See ~ if the objective can still be realized ~ or better realized!
With consciousness ~ of harmony~balance ~
Rather than with control.
I believe the path to success will be more pleasurable ~
And achieved ~ with vitality ~ to boot!
With consciousness ~ without control.
Consciousness of Space
Consciousness of Self ~
You Choose ~ ~ ~ ~ ~